Pre-retirees Are Confused, Not Committed


The Time-Optimized Newsletter

Helping move time from finite to infinite (issue 180)

Pre-retirees Are Confused, Not Committed

Most people aren’t afraid of retirement. They’re afraid of not knowing what they’re retiring to.

Flo had the savings. She had a great advisor. But she still couldn’t move.

Why?

Because her vision was fuzzy.

And fuzzy vision = indecision.

Financial plans mean NOTHING if your clients can’t picture how they’re spending their Tuesday mornings post-retirement.

🧠 This is where real advisors step in.

Stop just being the money person.

Start being the clarity person.

👉 Ask better questions.

👉 Build their lifestyle plan.

👉 Help them design a LIFE worth funding.

I wrote this article because too many pre-retirees are stuck in neutral, not from fear—but from a lack of purpose.

Let’s fix that.


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Time is a Dojo: Learn to Enter, Focus, and Leave with Intention

🥋 Time is a dojo—are you showing it the respect it deserves?

In martial arts, every session begins with intention:

✅ Bowing in to leave distractions behind

✅ Listening to your Sensei

✅ Respecting fellow students

✅ Controlling your movements

Why don’t we do the same with our time?

Too often, we start our workday mid-scroll…

…or never truly “leave” at the end of it.

Our calendars are reactive, not disciplined.

Our focus? Fragmented.

In my latest article, I explore how martial arts etiquette offers a surprising blueprint for time mastery.

📖 Read it.

💭 Then ask yourself—when was the last time you bowed in to your day?


Time-Optimized Job Interviewing – Part 3 Control

🚨 Why You Might Be Losing Control in Job Interviews 🚨

You’ve prepared thoroughly.

You’ve executed your plan.

But what happens when the interview takes an unexpected turn?

In the final installment of the Time-Optimized Job Interviewing series, I share a personal story of a moment when I lost control in an interview—and how it cost me the job.

In this article, I outline key strategies for maintaining control, from structuring responses to redirecting conversations and reinforcing your value after the interview.

💥 If you’ve ever felt like you were “always the bridesmaid, never the bride” in the interview room, this one’s for you.


Time-Optimized Job Interviewing – Part 2 Execution

💥 You don’t rise to the level of your resume. You fall to the level of your preparation and execution. 💥

I watched a candidate literally RUN out of an interview. Not because they weren’t smart.

📌 Interviewing is a PERFORMANCE.

📌 You’ve got limited time to show what you’ve got.

📌 And if you’re Googling answers mid-interview… it’s already over.

Stop winging it. Start executing with intent.

🔥 Want to crush the next opportunity?

In Part 2 of my series, I break down the EXECUTION phase of a job interview.

You’ll learn:

✅ How to compartmentalize tasks under pressure

✅ How to focus when it feels like chaos

✅ Why “protected time” might be your interview superpower

💡 Most people prepare for the interview like it’s a conversation. It’s not. It’s a controlled test of how well you use your time.

Let’s stop guessing and start dominating. Time-optimization isn’t optional—it’s everything.

📖 Read the full article.


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