Mapping Out the First 90 Days of Retirement

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The first 90 days of retirement aren’t a vacation — they’re an onboarding period that quietly determines whether the next 20 years feel purposeful or adrift.

This Week's Feature

Mapping Out the First 90 Days of Retirement

🕰️ The First 90 Days of Retirement Can Define the Next 9,000

Yet when people retire — stepping into the most significant transition of their adult life — almost no one builds a 90-day plan.

The first three months after leaving full-time work are formative. They set patterns that influence health, happiness, and purpose for years to come.

In my article that first appeared in Rethinking65, I explore:

✅ The “retirement time vacuum” and why structure matters

✅ Four dimensions advisors can use to guide clients (time, purpose, social health, lifestyle)

✅ A 3-phase, 90-day framework to create early wins in retirement

The first 90 days aren’t a vacation — they’re an orientation to a new life.

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This Week’s Action Step (2 minutes)

Imagine it’s Day 90 of your retirement and someone asks, “How’s this new chapter going?”

Write down the first three words you hope you’d use to answer.

Those words are clues to what you should be intentionally building in the first three months — not accidentally falling into.

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Time Insight of the Week

Behavioral science shows that early habits stick — and retirement is no different. When structure disappears overnight, whatever fills the vacuum in the first 90 days often becomes the default lifestyle. Drift early, and drift lasts. Intention early creates confidence, clarity, and adaptability long after the calendar stops keeping score.